Forgiveness.....

FORGIVENESS is not something

we do for OTHER PEOPLE;

We do it for ourselves

to GET WELL and MOVE ON.

Excerpt from a blog entry by Kym Kennedy To read the complete article click here -


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What exactly is love? M. Scott Peck author of The Road Less Traveled says that love is "The will to extend one's self for the purpose of nurturing one's own or another's spiritual growth". One of www.dictionary.com’s 18 definitions says it is "affectionate concern for the well-being of others". Gary Chapman, author of "The Five Languages of Love says "While love is a many-splendored thing, it is sometimes a very confusing thing, too. And as people come in all varieties, shapes, and sizes, so do their choices of personal expressions of love. More often than not, the giver and the receiver each express love in different ways. That can lead to misunderstanding, quarrels, and even divorce." He goes on to say"Learn to speak and understand your mate's love language, and in no time you will be able to effectively love and truly feel loved in return."



All of them imply that love is about uplifting one’s spirit. We need to learn to do that for God, ourselves and others. So what are some ways we can do that daily... moment by moment?



Regarding us - we can stop criticizing ourselves - You know that little voice in your head that constantly nags you? Stop her! Stop him! Stop them in their tracks! Thank them for sharing and then reframe the conversation - think about all the good that you have going for you. Talk about that good to yourself. Admire yourself, honor yourself, respect and appreciate yourself. Do it daily - look yourself in the eyes and say how you love yourself.



Part of why we have difficulty loving others is because on some subconscious level we probably ask, "How can I love them when I can’t love me? How is it that they are more deserving than me?" Well they aren’t any more deserving but they also aren’t any less deserving. We are all - ALL - deserving of love no matter what we have done in the past. LOVE YOURSELF!!



What can we do regarding others? Forgive them. I don’t care what they did - Forgive them. How many times? Our teacher, Elder Brother and Way Shower, Jesus the Christ said that we should forgive 70 times 7. That sounds like a lot! That sounds like, um, as many times as it takes!



Forgive your mother, forgive your father, forgive your siblings, forgive your past lovers, forgive your current lovers. Forgive the neighbor who doesn’t pick up their dog droppings. Forgive the teacher that embarrassed you in the third grade, forgive the woman that walked out on you and the car dealer that sold you a lemon as well as the parent that didn’t respect your decision making even as an adult.



Make a list of a minimum of 70 people that you need to forgive and do it. I highly recommend you use the free tools of Radical Forgiveness to do this work.



Once you have really (and radically) forgiven that many people, Imagine how much stuck energy you will be releasing from your mind and body, freeing you up to give and receive more and more love instead of being clogged and bogged down with old grudges and heartbreaks. Do this every time you find yourself triggered by someone, or embroiled in a conflict of any sort. Remember that the Law of Attraction says that you attract what you focus on so focus on forgiveness and you will automatically be focusing on love and attracting more of it into your life.



Uplift someone. It may sound trite, but be nice to strangers. Make it your mission to be the light in everyone you meet’s day. At the checkout counter I always make sure that I share a smile, or a little joke to spread a little love their way especially the grouchy ones. Send love to the person honking the car behind you. They will feel it energetically. We know that thoughts are things. If you can stomach the news, which I only occasionally can, send prayers and love to the T.V. set as you watch the horror that is going on around the world. Every thought you create affects every atom on the planet.



Speak to children. Children are often some of the most ignored people on the planet, especially teens. No matter whether their hair is blue or their pants are falling off - speak to the children and send them love. They are our future and we really do need to let them know we support them as they go through this awkward phase of life. Do you remember how awkward it was being a teen? Give them your love.



Almost done. There are certainly more things I am sure you will think of on your own but here are a final few. Show appreciation. Give folks verbal conscious words of appreciation. Certainly do it for your family, but also for the people you interact with daily. Tell the cleaner’s clerk that you appreciate the prompt attention you get every time you come in. Tell the nail lady that you appreciate her attention to detail with your nails. Tell your kid’s teacher how you appreciate their work with your kids. Go on an appreciation mission - seeking all the good things that are going on around you and offer conscious words of appreciation. There is power in our words. That also goes for the trees and the cars and furniture too! We are all made of vibrating energy and not just the people, plants and pets pick up on the love we send.



Finally, go on a no complaint diet. Refuse to complain about anything to anyone. All things are in divine order and resisting what is is one of the #1 ways we move out of a space of love. Work on accepting all situations and find the lesson and love the opportunity to rise again in consciousness. You do know that we need not stay in circumstances that are hurtful or causing us distress. Yet the more we focus on love, the more love is attracted to us, and the fewer such unpleasant situations will show up. As you send love out to your world it will vibrate out to the rest of the world. When you love 100 people and they love 100 people, one day we’ll have a critical mass of love sweeping the planet and it really will make the world go around!

FORGIVENESS....

FORGIVENESS is not something that
we do for other people.
We do it for OURSELVES
to GET WELL and MOVE ON.

Excerpt from a blog entry by Kym Kennedy

 

http://kymsconsciousconversations.com/New.aspx

 

Excerpt from a blog entry by Kym Kennedy  

What exactly is love? M. Scott Peck author of The Road Less Traveled says that love is "The will to extend one's self for the purpose of nurturing one's own or another's spiritual growth". One of www.dictionary.com’s 18 definitions says it is "affectionate concern for the well-being of others". Gary Chapman, author of "The Five Languages of Love says "While love is a many-splendored thing, it is sometimes a very confusing thing, too. And as people come in all varieties, shapes, and sizes, so do their choices of personal expressions of love. More often than not, the giver and the receiver each express love in different ways. That can lead to misunderstanding, quarrels, and even divorce." He goes on to say"Learn to speak and understand your mate's love language, and in no time you will be able to effectively love and truly feel loved in return."

All of them imply that love is about uplifting one’s spirit. We need to learn to do that for God, ourselves and others. So what are some ways we can do that daily... moment by moment?

Regarding us - we can stop criticizing ourselves - You know that little voice in your head that constantly nags you? Stop her! Stop him! Stop them in their tracks! Thank them for sharing and then reframe the conversation - think about all the good that you have going for you. Talk about that good to yourself. Admire yourself, honor yourself, respect and appreciate yourself. Do it daily - look yourself in the eyes and say how you love yourself.

Part of why we have difficulty loving others is because on some subconscious level we probably ask, "How can I love them when I can’t love me? How is it that they are more deserving than me?" Well they aren’t any more deserving but they also aren’t any less deserving. We are all - ALL - deserving of love no matter what we have done in the past. LOVE YOURSELF!!

What can we do regarding others? Forgive them. I don’t care what they did - Forgive them. How many times? Our teacher, Elder Brother and Way Shower, Jesus the Christ said that we should forgive 70 times 7. That sounds like a lot! That sounds like, um, as many times as it takes!

Forgive your mother, forgive your father, forgive your siblings, forgive your past lovers, forgive your current lovers. Forgive the neighbor who doesn’t pick up their dog droppings. Forgive the teacher that embarrassed you in the third grade, forgive the woman that walked out on you and the car dealer that sold you a lemon as well as the parent that didn’t respect your decision making even as an adult.

Make a list of a minimum of 70 people that you need to forgive and do it. I highly recommend you use the free tools of Radical Forgiveness to do this work.

Once you have really (and radically) forgiven that many people, Imagine how much stuck energy you will be releasing from your mind and body, freeing you up to give and receive more and more love instead of being clogged and bogged down with old grudges and heartbreaks. Do this every time you find yourself triggered by someone, or embroiled in a conflict of any sort. Remember that the Law of Attraction says that you attract what you focus on so focus on forgiveness and you will automatically be focusing on love and attracting more of it into your life.

Uplift someone. It may sound trite, but be nice to strangers. Make it your mission to be the light in everyone you meet’s day. At the checkout counter I always make sure that I share a smile, or a little joke to spread a little love their way especially the grouchy ones. Send love to the person honking the car behind you. They will feel it energetically. We know that thoughts are things. If you can stomach the news, which I only occasionally can, send prayers and love to the T.V. set as you watch the horror that is going on around the world. Every thought you create affects every atom on the planet.

Speak to children. Children are often some of the most ignored people on the planet, especially teens. No matter whether their hair is blue or their pants are falling off - speak to the children and send them love. They are our future and we really do need to let them know we support them as they go through this awkward phase of life. Do you remember how awkward it was being a teen? Give them your love.

Almost done. There are certainly more things I am sure you will think of on your own but here are a final few. Show appreciation. Give folks verbal conscious words of appreciation. Certainly do it for your family, but also for the people you interact with daily. Tell the cleaner’s clerk that you appreciate the prompt attention you get every time you come in. Tell the nail lady that you appreciate her attention to detail with your nails. Tell your kid’s teacher how you appreciate their work with your kids. Go on an appreciation mission - seeking all the good things that are going on around you and offer conscious words of appreciation. There is power in our words. That also goes for the trees and the cars and furniture too! We are all made of vibrating energy and not just the people, plants and pets pick up on the love we send.

Finally, go on a no complaint diet. Refuse to complain about anything to anyone. All things are in divine order and resisting what is is one of the #1 ways we move out of a space of love. Work on accepting all situations and find the lesson and love the opportunity to rise again in consciousness. You do know that we need not stay in circumstances that are hurtful or causing us distress. Yet the more we focus on love, the more love is attracted to us, and the fewer such unpleasant situations will show up. As you send love out to your world it will vibrate out to the rest of the world. When you love 100 people and they love 100 people, one day we’ll have a critical mass of love sweeping the planet and it really will make the world go around!

Sharing Good Article - This is a very Important Time

This is a Very Important Time 


By: Patricia Cota-Robles  Published: July 2010

All we have to do is turn on the news to see that we are in the midst of a very tumultuous time on this planet. Challenging and even catastrophic things are taking place in every facet of people’s lives. It is very easy to feel overwhelmed and fearful about the future and what is going to happen to us. Unfortunately, our fear just compounds the problem and motivates us to cling to the old paradigms that are surfacing to be healed and transmuted into Light. Even if our old behavior patterns and our previous ways of thinking and acting have made us miserable, at least they are familiar to us and we know what to expect. As the expression goes, “Better the devil you know than the devil you do not know.” This attitude is common, but nothing could be more counter-productive during this time of transformation.

Fortunately, the things that are occurring all over the world are not going to destroy Humanity or the Earth. These horrific things are coming up to get our attention and to motivate us to find a better way of interacting with each other and the Earth. We have been buried in our own self-inflicted pain and suffering for so long that we are numb. Unless something catastrophic happens in our lives, we just muddle through each day without paying much attention to what we might do to make things better. However, when something disastrous happens in our personal lives or on the planet, we start scrambling around to see what we can do to correct the situation.

The devastating environmental disaster occurring in the Gulf of Mexico at this time is a prime example of this Truth. We have known for decades that oil and coal are polluting the planet and wreaking havoc in the lives of people everywhere. Time and again, awakening souls have tapped into the Realms of Illumined Truth and come up with clean energy sources and technologies that would eliminate our use of oil and coal. Because of the power and money associated with these industries, these new methods of energy have always been suppressed and hidden from the mass consciousness of Humanity. People have come to the erroneous conclusion that we must have oil and coal in order to survive and maintain our livelihoods. Even now, with oil destroying the precious wetlands and ecosystems in the Gulf of Mexico, many people there are upset that President Obama has called for a moratorium on deep-water drilling. This is a graphic demonstration of Humanity’s distorted perception at this time.

Our lives are so interwoven with the very things that are causing the problems on Earth that we feel we must perpetuate them in order to survive. This illusion is the direct manipulation of our fear-based, fragmented human egos. Our lower human egos believe that the physical plane is all that exists and that our purpose and reason for being is to gratify our physical senses. Our human egos are aware that we are awakening and that our God Selves are beginning to reclaim dominion of our lives. Our egos are fighting tooth and nail to prevent our God Selves from taking back the power. Breaking the bonds of the paralyzing grip our human egos have had over us for lifetimes is the next critical step in the unfolding Divine Plan. An activity of Light that involves the God Selves of all Humanity is now underway.

Please step back, take a deep breath, and release any fear your human ego may be using to try to manipulate you. Allow the Divinity within your heart to expand as you read these words with an open heart and an open mind. Miracles are happening.

For some time, the signs have been telling us that one of the greatest needs is for awakening Humanity to attain our financial freedom. This is a vital and necessary facet of the Divine Plan. In order to bring these powerful solutions into physical manifestation, awakened people with a higher consciousness need to have the financial support to bypass the old paradigms of greed and corruption. It is the abuse of money and the compulsive greed of our human egos that have caused the appalling poverty and the inequitable distribution of wealth on this planet in the first place.

The Beings of Light have confirmed that at this very moment there are patterns of perfection in the Causal Body of God that contain practical solutions for every negative situation manifesting on Earth. These include solutions to our energy crisis, pollution, global warming, disease, poverty, crime, aging, hunger, homelessness, war, and every other human mis-creations. Amazingly, there are people who have been manipulated by their human egos into suppressing the knowledge and the technologies that are available to solve these problems. Through their limited, fear-based consciousness, all these people can see is what will happen to their present financial situations if these problems are solved.

For instance, what would happen if all of a sudden disease and the degenerative process of aging were eliminated from the planet? Imagine the number of people who would be out of work: doctors, nurses, hospitals, nursing homes, rehabilitation centers, pharmacies, drug companies, medical insurance companies, and all of the workers who support these industries. Millions of people have a vested interest in keeping us sick.

What would happen if war were eliminated? This would cause a great deal of concern for military personnel. Millions would be out of work if our military complex and the war machine were no longer needed.

What if Humanity remembers the Oneness of Life? What if we all recognize the Divinity within each other, and we truly develop a reverence for all Life? Crime, corruption, violence, greed, and everything associated with the criminal aspects of our present existence would be eliminated. Think of the number of people who would be out of work if we no longer needed the criminal justice system, police, security officers, prisons, prison guards, criminal lawyers, et cetera. What in the world would we watch on television or in the movies? It is interesting to observe that since many of the prisons in the USA have been privatized, the population of the prisons in this country has more than doubled. Prisons cannot succeed as a private business without lots of prisoners. There are millions of people who are vested in keeping crime alive and well.

When we ask people if they want to see disease, war, and crime eliminated, they usually say “of course.” But when their livelihoods depend on these things, they are afraid of what will happen to their financial security if these conditions cease to exist. That fear creates an underlying need that perpetuates the painful things people say they would like to eliminate.

We are so accustomed to living with disease, war, and crime that we think they are normal. We cannot even imagine living without them. The concept of a world without these maladies seems unrealistic and far too good to be true. Our Father-Mother God and the Company of Heaven are striving to remind us of the fact that these terrible things were never part of our Divine Plan. We created them through the misuse of our thoughts, words, feelings, and actions and they are being perpetuated and sustained by our fear-based human egos. It is time for us to stop this insanity. It is time to turn things around.

We must free ourselves from the paralyzing grip of our human egos and raise our consciousness. Instead of looking at the outer world and coming to the erroneous conclusion that this is all there is, we need to see the bigger picture. WE ARE CO-CREATING THIS REALITY!!! Everything existing on Earth at this time is the result of Humanity’s collective consciousness. If we do not like what is happening in our individual lives or on the planet, we can join together and co-create a new reality. Our task is to have enough of us focusing our attention on the patterns of perfection for the New Earth to reach a critical mass. When we lift our consciousness, we realize that we can tap into the patterns of perfection in the Causal Body of God. We have the ability to co-create wonderful new ventures and avenues of employment that will secure our financial freedom while blessing and enhancing all Life. We do not have to limit ourselves to the parameters of what currently exists on Earth. We do not have to perpetuate pain and suffering just so we will have enough money to survive. This distorted belief is a trap that our human egos created in order to control us. It is time for us to reclaim our Divine Birthright, which is God’s Infinite Abundance.


For more information about Patricia or the New Age Study of Humanity's Purpose (or NASHP) go to: http://eraofpeace.org ©2010 Patricia Diane Cota-Robles